Scripture tells us practically nothing about the first years and the boyhood of the Child Jesus. All we have are the stories of the sojourn in Egypt, the return to Nazareth, and the incidents that occurred when the twelve-year old boy accompanied his parents to Jerusalem. In her liturgy the Church hurries over this period of Christ’s life with equal brevity. The general breakdown of the family, however, at the end of the past century and at the beginning of our own, prompted the popes, especially the farsighted Leo XIII, to promote the observance of this feast with the hope that it might instill into Christian families something of the faithful love and the devoted attachment that characterize the family of Nazareth. The primary purpose of the Church in instituting and promoting this feast is to present the Holy Family as the model and exemplar for all Christian families. “The Holy Family is an icon of the domestic Church, which is called to pray together. The family is the first school of prayer where, from their infancy, children learn to perceive God, thanks to the teaching and example of their parents. If we do not learn to pray in the family, it will be difficult to fill this gap later. I would, then, like to invite people to rediscover the beauty of praying together as a family, following the school of the Holy Family of Nazareth” (Pope Benedict XVI). The Christian family is the first cell of the whole Church. It is the place where we begin the journey toward holiness and become more fully human. The Incarnate Word, Jesus Christ, became one of us. He was born into a human family. That was neither accidental nor incidental. There, in what the Pope Paul VI called the “School of Nazareth”, we can learn the way of love. Jesus, in his childhood at Nazareth, forever transformed family life. Now, He teaches us how to live in love and devotion, if we will enroll in the “School of Nazareth”.
December 5, 2021
It is the Holy Spirit who moves the follower of Christ who has sinned to come to the Sacrament of Penance. Inspired by the Holy Spirit, we seek deeper and deeper conversion to God. This process of conversion through the Sacrament of Reconciliation has four elements: contrition, confessions, penance and absolution.
In previous articles, I have examined contrition and confession. Now I would like to focus on the element of penance. Sin is destructive. It can harm self, others, the community and creation. When I was a child, the common act of penance the priest gave us was to pray three Hail Maries and one Our Father.
While prayer is always good, I often did not see the connection between what I confessed and the penance that was given. Today, the focus is on a penance that can really be a remedy for sin and a help to renewal of life.
Sin can easily become habit forming, even addictive.
A penance can help one break a bad habit by developing a good one. One can push against a sin by choosing to do the opposite. In suggesting a penance, I often give the opposite of a sin confessed. The penance can also help repair an injury sin has caused to another. Whereas sin is destructive, a penance can be constructive and bring healing to others harmed by one’s sin.
While the priest suggests the penance, the penitent has to agree to it. One can always ask for a different penance if the one suggested is impossible or too difficult to carry out. Sometimes the penitent even can suggest a penance they believe will be a true remedy for their sin.
This Advent, since we do not have permission to celebrate Reconciliation with a general absolution, we do have the opportunity to be more intentional in offering a penance that truly addresses the sins being confessed. The whole purpose of a penance is to bring healing. True conversion is completed by acts of penance.
November 28, 2021
Sacrament of Reconciliation
It is the Holy Spirit who moves the follower of Christ who has sinned to come to the Sacrament of Penance. Inspired by the Holy Spirit, we seek deeper and deeper conversion to God. This process of conversion through the Sacrament of Reconciliation has four elements: contrition, confessions, penance and absolution.
Last week I reflected on contrition. This week, I focus on that second element: confession. This comes from true knowledge of self. Examining one’s actions, motives and circumstance is done in light of God’s mercy, confident that God wants to bring us greater freedom through the forgiveness of sin. Naming sin out-loud lessens its power over us, for sin always likes to be kept secret where it can fester. Confession invites the penitent to open his or her heart to the minister of God who is there to speak God’s mercy. Unfortunately, too many have experienced the confessional as a torture chamber rather than a hospital (as Pope Francis has lamented).
When a person names their sin to me, I am filled will compassion for their struggle as wells as inspiration at their strength in naming that sin that tries to continue its hold on them. I also am attentive that it is the Holy Spirit who probably led them to the Sacrament. God’s grace is at work when someone feels the need to celebrate this sacrament. I am humbled to be a part of this holy encounter. And, for some reason, I never seem to remember what a person has told me I confession. Still, some people are more comfortable going to confession at a neighboring parish rather than to their own pastor. The Church applies its harshest penalty of excommunication to a priest who ever reveals what is said in the confessional. The priest is not there as sheriff or judge, but there to express God’s mercy.
In the past, the parish’s Advent and Lent Reconciliation Services did not include individual confession to a priest. The archbishop did not grant me the necessary permission to continue that custom. However, I hope you will experience this element of confession as a freeing and liberating prayer and the pathway of receiving the abundance of God’s mercy.
November 21,2021
Moving the Furniture
As we begin the new liturgical year and the season of Advent, I would like to move the furniture a bit. The way our church was onstructed allows for rearranging the furniture at times. I hear that in the past it was common to rearrange all the chairs. I just want to move one: the presider’s chair.
First, I would like to remove the platform upon which the chair stands. It takes up a lot of room and does not give much space for the Eucharistic Minsters to gather. I feel awkward giving them Communion standing three steps above them, but there is no room to go down and stand at the same level. It also feels awkward moving from the chair to the altar when I have to go down one-half step and up three.
To me, the platform makes the Presider’s Chair appear too throne-like and separate from the Assembly. In moving the chair, I would like to emphasize its relation to the Assembly, being in the midst of the Assembly. I think I am tall enough to be seen without standing on the platform. In fact, I may be the tallest pastor you have had.
In moving the presider’s chair, we will also move the cross from in between the altar and chair to behind the altar, emphasizing the relationship between the sacrifice of Christ on the Cross and the gift of the Eucharist.
I would also like to highlight the altar a bit more by moving the candles and some of the plants from right next to it to a few feet from it. As those lovely plants grow, they are beginning to obscure the altar a bit.
These visual differences will mark the change in the liturgical season. I hope it may deepen our sense of what we do at Mass. Nevertheless, if it does not work, we can always rearrange the furniture again for the next liturgical season.
November 14, 2021
Sacrament of Reconciliation
The Second Vatican Council decreed that the rite for Reconciliation be revised to “more clearly express the nature and effects of this sacrament.” In 1973 a new ritual was promulgated that not only revised the rite for individual confession, but also added a rite for reconciliation of several penitents with individual confession. This emphasized the relation of the sacrament to the community. The revision also added, for special occasions, a rite of reconciliation of several penitents with general confession and absolution.
Over the years, as general confession and absolution became more frequently used, the Church began to limit its use. The concern was that it was replacing individual confession as the primary way of celebrating this sacrament of God’s mercy and love. Now, use of general confession and absolution requires the permission of one’s bishop.
Our parish has had a long history of celebrating general confession and absolution during Advent and Lent. Hoping to continue this custom, I requested permission from our archbishop to use this form of the sacrament. He has written “While I appreciate your pastoral sensitivity in this matter… I do not believe this rises to the level of pastoral necessity for me to grant the requested permission.”
While some will be disappointed, I hope this will give us an occasion to revisit this ritual of forgiveness and explore anew “the nature and effects of this sacrament.”
November 7, 2021
Service to Others
When our country went to war in Afghanistan in 2001 and invaded Iraq in 2003, many churches looked for ways to keep those serving in the military and now facing the perils of war in their prayers. Many churches displayed picture of family members serving in the Armed Forces. I am presuming that is the origin of the display in the back of our church. No one on the staff can remember.
Now that those wars have ended, we will be taking down this display, thankful that these armed conflicts have ceased. We pray for those who now must carry the scars of war in mind, body or spirit. We are still grateful for those continuing to honorably serve their country through the military. We are grateful for others who serve the common good at risk to themselves such as police and firefighters. During the Covid pandemic, we give thanks for those frontline workers in our hospitals, care facilities, schools and essential services. We would not be able to provide a board big enough to honor all who serve the common good at risk or sacrifice to self.
Let us continue to honor these many individuals with words of gratitude. Express your thanks to those who continue to serve the public good. Simple words like “Thank you for what you do, especially during this pandemic” can have a strong impact. I can also help us deal with the stress of these times by acknowledging the good around us.
This Veterans” Day, let us give thanks for those-both living and deceased-who served in the military. On Thursday November 11th, for the 5:30 PM Mass, bring a picture of your loved one who served in the Armed Forces.
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